Finally, There’s Clarity On That Post-Coitus ‘Press Conference’

There’s that ubiquitous, testosterone-driven question almost every woman gets asked at 3:00 AM when her partner rolls over and pokes her, usually with his erection: “Baby, you awake?” Even if you’re not under the same roof, there it is like clockwork, some texted version of the question, which, to inexperienced ears sounds like, “Baby, I’m just lying here thinking about you…I miss you!”

Then, there’s that other question. Like clockwork, too, that question comes right after he’s got your sexual percolator bubbling β€” and his way. It just seems like they are compelled to know: “Baby, um, did you…?”

Well, finally, we get to hear what’s really going on in that post-coitus “press conference” β€” straight from the horse’s mouth.

Donna Kassin

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Political commentator. Management consultant. Life & relationship coach. Catalyst for transformation. A regular contributor to HuffPost and several Medium publications. Donna is Jamaican by birth and the author of the upcoming book, "EVERYTHING CRASH: The Search and Rescue Mission for America."