About Us

Editor’s Note

The Real Proposal™ is a broad-based, lifestyle magazine that takes a holistic approach to the all-inclusive issues surrounding relationships. It is neither “fluff” nor a “wedding planner.” Our slogan, “Beyond White Lace & Promises,” is a reflection of our objective to explore the spectrum of issues and the resulting relationships that arise from dating, nesting, parenting, divorce, and, yes, sex, while recognizing that there are myriad social and political issues that must be examined carefully and presented with the kind of objectivity that is unencumbered by overzealous religiosity.

While the ideal of “conscious marriage”— the desired outcome of purposeful decisions that promote a healthy marriage relationship—is key, The Real Proposal™ recognizes that marriage is not for everyone. Neither is it a guarantee of happiness. Certain relationships are better off terminated for the physical, mental, and spiritual well-being of everyone involved. Therefore, it is also committed to sound guidance through the separation process and on rebuilding life thereafter, if that happens to be the best option.

Our mission is to provide an interactive medium of empowerment, which engenders dialogue and promotes greater understanding of relationships at individual, familial and societal levels on issues that are relevant when contemplating stable, long-term commitments, especially those, which, if left unresolved, could lead to separation.

Toward this end, we hope:

  • To provide an inclusive forum for couples and singles of all ages, races, religious or secular backgrounds, and sexual orientations
  • To become a powerful national voice providing clarity to those seeking healthy, thriving relationships
  • To help parents – or prospective parents – understand how childhood experiences affect parenting styles
  • To empower and educate young adults on issues of consent and sexual agency
  • To support those involved in dissolving unhealthy relationships to rebuild life through self rediscovery and empowerment.

Please enjoy our offerings and know that we appreciate your feedback. We look forward to your active participation by way of comments in our forums. Feel free to contact us, also, to make suggestions or secure our personal coaching services.

Welcome to TheRealProposal.com — Beyond White Lace & Promises.

Donna Kassin
Founder & Editorial Director

Donna Kassin
Founder & Editorial Director.

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